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Remembering the 80s

2008-07-13T16:59:00.000-07:00

I know I know. Long time no post. So sue me. I've never gotten the hang of sharing my life with the masses that much, but I'm trying.

But recently I've been to two concerts that threw my love of and admiration for the enduring pop music of the 80s to the forefront of my life again, and I actually have some media to share that some wil enjoy too. Actually came out alright considering I was recording with my still camera.

The early 80s were a pivitol time in my life. I graduated high school in 83, and I started exploring what gay life North Alabama had to offer (not much) in my junior year. Dealing with that and trying to still be a regular highschooler created a bit of angst in my life, and music helped me deal with that immensely.

I think it was my junior year when my sister came home with a yellow colored album by a band call The B-52s. At first I thought it was a joke band. Then I started really listening and realized it was pop genius. I was a fan from then on, and living where I did I got the oportunity to see them live quite a few times. The perfect party band, and the first time I was really struck by a death of someone from AIDS (when Ricky died after the first two albums). They've recently release their first studio album, Funplex, in something like 15-20 years. It's very recommended!

And then there was Yaz. I discovered them all on my own. The first time I heard the beat of Vince's music and the sound of Alison's voice on "Only You" I was hooooooooked. Laying on the carpeted floor of my small bedroom with the headphones on, listening over and over to both the albums and just BECOMING the music. I was so crushed when they broke up. Never seen them live, hell, they never performed live in the US except once in New York in 82 I think it was.

Flash forward 25 years and Vince and Alison think it's time to complete things, for them and for the fans, so they arrange to tour together for the first, and last, world tour of Yaz. David and I were lucky enough to get to see them here in Oakland at the Paramount Theatre. They were incredible. Performing every song from both albums! I think they were geniuely surprised and very pleased by the audience response. I think it was their first stop in the States. Alison was loving the love washing over them. Vince was his usual stotic self but very much enjoying it too.

It was a great pleasure to be sharing both these events with my man David. Being only 10 months apart in age, we have a lot of the same cultural references and we were very much into some of the same type music.

Below are a few clips I got of those tow bands, plus Cyndi Lauper. Cyndi and the B's I caught at the True Colors concert, then a week later was Yaz. I'm still buzzing from both!

The first clip is the B-52s singing a favorite of mine, "Mesopotamia":

Then "Rock Lobster":

From the new album, "Juliet of the Spirits" (love this song!):

And, of course, the very popular, "Love Shack":

Cyndi Lauper has a new album out too, called "Bring Ya to the Brink". I have to say it's very good and I highly recommend it. Very upbeat, catchy music with a message.

The first video of her below is from that new album, called "Rocking Chair":

The first single from that new album is called "Into the Nightlife" and I caught about half of it in the below clip. I wasn't going to record it at all, but she came out into the audience and sang part of it and that's where I started recording:

And then the classic, "I Drove All Night", which she began with a little bit of "Blue Savannah" by Erasure:

Now on to Yaz. I was much more wary about recording while indoors in the dark, but I got a few that turned out OK.

First up is a snippet of "Goodbye 70s":

Next up is David's favorite (or one of his favorite, who can have a favorite from Yaz?), "In My Room". They brought a soft chair with a pillow for Alison to hug as she sang this...LOVE IT:

And one of my favorites, and probably alot of other folks, "Winter Kills":

And first song of the encore, and their first single "Only You"...listen to the crowding singing along to the entire thing!:

All in all, this has definitely been the Summer of Remembering the 80s and I've loved every minute of it.

Grand Bahama Island

2006-04-14T17:58:00.000-07:00

David and I took off for a week in late March for Grand Bahama Island. This is the island with Freeport and the Lucaya Port. I had traded a week of my time share for this stay so it was a super cheap week for us in that sense. We just wanted to go somewhere in the Caribbean, and this place, the Ocean Reef Yacht Club, seemed to be the prettiest that was available. Looks are deceiving. I guess I should have known it was going to be an iffy week when we arrived on the island and the power was off for the entire island. Some places, like the airport, had generators, but mostly it was no energy. Stayed that way for about 4 hours.

The suite was fine, very good in fact. But the ground and pool facilities of the resort left a lot to be desired. We didn't spend much time there. We went to a different beach or took a drive to a different part of the island almost each day. The beaches were beautiful, the water was a lovely turquoise color, and the snorkeling was fun. Overall, we had a very relaxing week and we were away from the neverending rain of the Bay Area. The worst part you might ask? Well, everything was quite expensive. As an example, a bag of chips that would cost $3.49 here in SF, cost around $8.49 there. Fresh anything was hard to get and if you got it you paid out the nose for it. The food on the island was sub par..mediocre at best. Everything was either fried or from a can, or both. When we did get some average good fresh food from a Chinese place on the beach, we paid triple what I would have paid for a much better Chinese meal from down the street. We were dying for a fresh salad by the time the week was done!

So here are a few pictures of our week. Hope you enjoy!

The Little Yellow Sewing Machine

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Our rental car for the week. It's not a joke, it's a Kia! Seriously, I'm only 5'9" and when I drove this the drivers seat back was almost touching the front of the back seat. And I got my first experiece driving on the left hand side of the road. Kind of freaky at first, especially needing to remember to look right first instead of left first when you come to an intersection. But I think I did a pretty fair job of it. Thank God the steering wheel was U.S. standard and on the left of the car, otherwise it would have been a little TOO freaky. We did have one heart pounding scare with this thing. On our first trip to the east side of the island, looking for Gold Rock Beach, about 35 miles from Freeport - in other words, the middle of nowhere - we stop and turn the car off to walk out to this stream/beachy area to see if this place was Gold Rock. We determined it wasn't, so we got back in the car and....NOTHING. The engine doesn't turn over at all. Nada. Zip. No juice. Heart pounding. Stay clam. I got out of the car, popped the hood. Bingo! Battery cable off! Whew! You see, the roads we had been traveling on were a bit pot hole filled and it had apparently been already loose, so the bumpy roads did the rest. Boy, that was scary. Cell phones didn't work there!

Beaches & Sun

2006-04-14T17:36:00.000-07:00

So the best part about the week were the many different beaches we visited. We only went to one twice, and that was Paradise Cove. Silver Beach, Gold Rock and High Rock were the other beaches we visted. Paid a short visit to Xanadu Beach one afternoon, but didn't stay long. Did have someone offer us pot and/or cocaine there though. Thought that was kind of funny. The following pictures are from our relaxing experiences on the beach. The week started out a bit cloudy and cool, but by Tuesday and especially Wednesday, it was mostly sunny and 75 degrees. The color of the water was amazing and the sand was the pink of the imfamous Bahama beaches.

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Where's the sun?

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Here's to a relaxing vacation!

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David looking oh so nice on Silver Beach at sunset.

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The Gayest Things on the Island!

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Our first beach day at Gold Rock Beach.

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Waiting for the sun.

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This is my favorite picture from the whole week. Taken on High Rock Beach.

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Having a ball!

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The vacationers at High Rock beach. Gotta love the timer on the camera!

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Sand, aqua colored water, blue skies, and little puffy clouds. What more could you ask for?

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We come prepared! Water toys, food and drink, and the ever important sun block. Let me do your back!

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This is High Rock Beach, the further beach on the east side of the island that we went to. Pretty much deserted with the exception of a few people in the other direction from this shot. Nice to have the place to ourselves!

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Here I am at High Rock beach. Ahhh...relaxation.

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When we came back to our car after being at Gold Rock beach, there was this dude sitting in a tree in the parking lot. Big vulture or something. Pretty, yet ugly too. Ah nature.

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Sand Pipers (I think) on Gold Rock beach. Aren't they cute? They would get really close to you.

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To get to Gold Rock beach, you had to walk on this small, rickety walkway though the mangrove swamps. Kind of neat, but...look at that walkway! That slant is a bit much.

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Walking and walking and walking...it took you a while to get to deep water on most of the beaches. You could walk out many yards and still only be waist high sometimes. Here David is with our noodles. Every tropical trip we take, we have so far bought some pool noodles to have while we are there. Didn't use them too much this trip. Water may look pretty, but in actuality, it was pretty darn cold where we are in this picture, Gold Rock beach. I, myself, only got in up to my knees here. I preferred the slightly warmer waters of the west side of the island!

2006-04-14T17:05:00.000-07:00

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These are a few shells that David collected on our second trip to Paradise Cove beach. These type shells are the cause of the famous pink sand beaches of the Bahamas. The pinkish sand seemed to be mostly on the west side of the island. The east side seemed to have sand that was more white, and hardly any shells like this.

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This was taken on our first trip to Paradise Cove beach. We had just put our towels down and I was just soaking up the beauty!

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David keeping his spirits up that the clouds will go away....they did.

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Last full day of the vacation, at Paradise Cove beach looking to the left of our beach spot...

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and Paradise Cove beach looking to the right of our beach spot. We really loved this place the best.

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Notice the covering on the forearm? Well, after a few days of just putting number 50 on my new tattoo, I decided it was still getting too much sun and David came up with the brilliant idea of cutting a sock and using that as a cover.

Snorkeling, Reefs and Fish

2006-04-14T16:20:00.000-07:00

The two days we were at Paradise Cove, we rented snorkel gear and went to see Deadman's Reef just about 100 yards off shore. And at low tide, which we were there for on our first visit, you could have just walked out to the reef. We were kind of disappointed to see that much of the reef, here and probably elsewhere too, was dead or dying. Small patches were trying to live on. But we did manage to see some pretty beautiful things, including lots of purple coral, colorful fish and one sting ray that I chased for a minute or so. We took two disposable underwater cameras with us to see if we could get any good shots. I have to say that I'm impressed with the pictures over all. They do have a bit of a grainy quality, but not too bad.

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This is actually one of my favorite shots with the disposable camera. You'd never know that mask David is wearing was hurting him like mad!

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The happy snorkelers!

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Ready to Snorkel!

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A David Fish....

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and a Marti Fish

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Watch out for the big carp.

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We saw many of this cute little fellow with his blue, yellow and green body.

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Purple fan coral with some fire coral to the left of it. Don't touch the fire coral! Stinging and hurting for many hours my friend!

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A lovely specimen of brain coral.

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Some kind of very pretty purple stick coral. I tried to get a shot of a very pretty black fish with intense blue spots that was swiming around this thing, but it was too fast and sneaky about hiding.

Last Parting Glance

2006-04-14T15:53:00.000-07:00

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I loved the cloud formation in this last parting shot of the island. We were glad to be headed home, and desparate for a fresh salad! We did have a nice, relaxing time during our week long stay. But we wouldn't come back. Nice beaches, courteous people (but a bit sassy sometimes), but bad food and outrageous prices for everything but liquor! Plus not a very gay place. We were the only gay people I saw all week. And that's sad.

Mac Trouble - Part Deux

2006-03-14T16:42:00.000-08:00

Well, I've definitely learned more about Macs over the past few weeks! I was finally able to get the computer up and running in 'safe mode' so that I could attach my new La Cie d2 160GB Extreme HD (love it!) to the thing and do a complete back up of all files. Whew! Then I was able to get the install discs that came with the computer to finally work, and did a complete re-install of the OS.

Everything was up and running and seemed to be working fine for about a week. Then....boom! crash! Damn thing locked up on me completely during a software update and when I attempted to shut it down and reboot, it never came up again. D.E.A.D. - DEAD!

Thank God we have an Apple store here in SF as David and I was able to take down there, wait about an hour, and hand the thing over and say 'Here. Fix this!'. Although the tech couldn't get it to boot up either (told him so), he made an initial diagnosis that it was a probelm with the logic board. Hmmmm... Hopefully we'll get it back in a week or so. Hopefully.

Mac Trouble

2006-02-15T11:13:00.000-08:00

Well, our iMac we bought last July had a meltdown two weekends ago. Not sure what the problem is, but I may not be making posts frequently as I can't really do so at work. We do have a PC laptop at home that we are using to get emails etc., but I hate using it for long term computer use.

David spent an immense amount of time with Apple support to try and fix it. It seemed to working OK since this past Sunday (with the exception of the wireless connection), but now it's down again.

It has not given us a bit of trouble since buying it, but now....ARRGH!!!!!

4114A 17th Street

2006-01-29T17:04:00.000-08:00

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Here's a satelitte photo of the house where David and I live for the moment. We are planning on moving in the near future simply because it is too small for our needs. It is a cute, comfortable apartment and like I said in my very first post below when we first signed the lease, it's all about location with this place. Just take a look at this photo (thanks Google Earth!), and you'll see what I mean. For those of you not familar with the area, the Castro proper center (18th & Castro) is off the picture's lower right corner. Market Street, the main aretry of San Francisco, runs just a block from our house. But as you can see we are well off the street proper. You have to walk between the two building that front 17th to reach our house. And on three sides of our building is nothing but over grown jungle yards and one, directly behind us, that would give any true jungle a run for its money! Even though we are so close to the hustle and bussle of a main street and a busy city district, it is exceptionally quiet where we are. So when we move, it will be hard to find something that is so nature oriented, but I will try.

Some of my friends have asked about this first home that David and I decided to live in together, so below are a very few pictures of the views and interiors of the apartment.

South View

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This is the view out the bedrooms directly to the south, looking at the Eureka Valley area of the Castro.

Southeast View

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This is the view from the bedrooms of the apt. looking to the southeast. You're seeing the Sanchez Hill and the houses that cover it directly out in the picture.

Southwest View

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This is the view out the bedrooms of the apt. to the southwest toward Twin Peaks, although you can only see the left peak of the twins in this photo. This was taken on a beautifully clear blue sky day.

Front Deck

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This is the view of the front deck as you look from the upper porch by the front doors. That is our bright orange patio set. Unfortunately the so-called weather proof coating that it had on it was on match for the weather here in The City. It looks much duller now. But in the summer it is wonderful to come out here in the morning with coffee and pastries and read the paper or in the afternoon for a good bake in the sun and reading a book.

Flying Kisses

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The mobile hanging in the kitchen next to a sky light is of red resin lips, a gift I gave to David on our first Christmas together.

Kitchen with Stripes

2006-01-29T16:35:00.000-08:00

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David did the orange and blue striping and it came out wonderfully. Brought a lot of color into the place. We have matching orange and blue things through out the kitchen too as you can see with the blue champagne flutes and the orange vase you see below. Since these pictures we've now got a beautiful blue clear glass bowl with some sea themed etchings on it that sites next to that orange vase in the great light we get in this area of the apt.

Kitchen of Orange and Blue

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More of the orange and blue. This is the view of the bathroom to the left and the rest of the apt. to the right.

Kitchen View Into The Jungle

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This is our view out the back of the apartment onto the jungle that is behind us. The bird feeder hanging there has given us many hours of bird viewing pleasure (you know a bird picture posting is coming soon!).

Global Warming - Craig Poindexter

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This is hanging in the living room. Size is 4 x 6. It's simply gorgeous and I've loved it from the time that I first saw it going through it's birth pangs. I'm friends with the artist and have seen many of his pieces being born, but this was always my favorite. Then that incredible man of mine bought me this for me on our first Christmas in 2004. It depicts San Francisco after the waters have risen from the melted ice caps.

The Living Room

2006-01-29T16:17:00.000-08:00

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This room has been remodeled greatly since this photo, but I decided to include it anyway. I sold the sofa to a friend and we moved the love seat in hear to open the place up.

Creeping Fog Over Twin Peaks

2006-01-29T16:14:00.000-08:00

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We do have a great view of the fog rolling in over Twin Peaks. This shot I think has a great fairy (pun intended) tale feel about it.

Christmas 2005 in Palm Springs

2006-01-22T11:38:00.000-08:00

Since I didn't have the vacation time to make a trip home for the holiday's in 2005, David and I decided to take a short trip down to Palm Springs to visit my long time friend Jessie Balentine and his partner John McAvoy at there brand new (to them) house. They've purchased this house with the intention of renting it out for weekly rentals. So if you are interested click the links at the bottom of this post.

We started the Christmas weekend (and I have to first say that it was a bit strange spending Christmas in a place where it is sunny and 80 degrees, but I won't knock it!) with a visit to the Living Desert Botanical Garden and Zoo on Christmas Eve. Quite an amazing space, but I did feel sorry for some of the animals that didn't have ENOUGH space. The giraffe's had plenty of space though, and the best animal pictures I took were of them.

Then Christmas Eve night, Jessie & John had a small cocktail party with a few choice friends of theirs and ours. Topped off the weekend with an INCREDIBLE Christmas Day dinner that the two of them threw together and then left on Monday to do the 9 hour drive back to San Francisco (ugh!).

I'd love to spend any holiday in Palm Springs, but Chrstmas time with good friends was the best!!

Jessie & John's rental house:
http://www.psoasis.com/

Me & Jessie

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We've known each other since the summer I got out of high school. Wouldn't take anything in the world for his friendship...and his sense of humor! I'm never short of laughter when I'm around Jessie.

Please! I'm trying to sleep!

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An Africian Hornbill. Quite a large bird with vivid colors.

My guy beside the antelopes

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The antelope is over by the pile of tree trucks. But that's not what this picture is about.

I'm glad I'm sitting on the rock.

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David & Marti - In Front of Zebra Exhibit

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There's one there somewhere. But don't we look fabulous?

My God, these humans can be a bore, can't they?

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Two vultures from Africa if I remember correctly. I just loved the way they turned toward each other simultaneously. I know they were taking about us.

Giraffe on Hill #1

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At the Living Desert the giraffe's have a huge enclosure. I caught these three photos as the sun was going down. Such a majestic site.

Giraffe on Hill #2

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Giraffe on Hill #3

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John & Jessie

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Aren't they cute? And what a gorgeous day!

Marti, David, John, Jessie - Botantical Garden

2006-01-22T11:20:00.000-08:00

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When the four of us take a picture together, our legs somehow are always lined up perfectly. I wonder what that means? I do love this photo!!

Marti and long time friend, Jessie Balentine

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Don't you just love the floating fireplace? And, yes, Marti has had a little too much wine!

My Fine Man

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I think he goes wonderfully with the sofa, don't you?

David & Marti - Well Dressed

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In our holiday finest and oh-so-in-love.

The Palm Springs Christmas Tree

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Ahhh...isn't that pretty?

Christmas Dinner

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Jessie and John fixed the most delicous rack of lamb for Christmas dinner. Here we are toasting, with the dog Savannah looking at Jessie in worship.

Trip to Alabama

2005-06-20T15:40:00.000-07:00

In late May/early June, I took my new fiancee to my hometown in Alabama to introduce him to all my family. While he had met my Mom and Aunt Pat in January when they were here in The City for our engagement party, he had not met anyone else. And I also wanted to spend time with my lovely 20 month old nephew, Jackson.

As you can see by the pictures I have posted below, we did indeed have a marvelous time. Everyone liked David a lot, and he got along with everyone very very well. Other than spending time with Jackson and other family members, we went on a day hike through the Dismals Canyon in Phil Campbell, AL - a magnificanly beautiful spot unlike any other on this earth - and also took a tour of my mom's friend Maria's moss garden. And then there was just the wonderful relaxing time spent on the 100 acres of farmland, which is actually now being turned into mostly forest by my mom's planting of over 50,000 hard wood trees in the past few years. And we spent Memorial Day at a bar-b-que that my step-sister, Karen, and her husband had at their home on the Tennessee River.

All in all, it was a wonderful trip and I couldn't have asked for it to turn out better than it did. David is still talking about it to friends 3 weeks later and I think he may even be looking forward to his next visit!!

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David, in downtown Florence, Alabama...this picture says so much on its own.

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A lotus blossom in my mother's pond in the front yard of the house. SOOOOO Beautiful!!!!

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Me with my nephew, Jackson...ain't he cute?

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Me, my friend Marla and David, on the deck of my sister's pool, overlooking the splendid Tennessee River.

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My nephew Jackson, having fun on his climbing set...he's such a ham for the camera.

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My nephew, Jackson, giggling at a Barney the dinosaur show...God help us.

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Me and Mom in the Dismals.

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Beautiful waterfall in the Dismals

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David and Mom, on a path in the Dismals.

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The bloom of a big leaf magnolia, taken in the Dismals.

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Mom and David sitting underneath a rock over hang in the Dismals.

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David, Maria and me, in Maria's moss garden.

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Me and David, sitting in my mom's garden.

New Home

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Well, after 6 hours of watching the two movers pack up my belongings and then unpack them from the truck (boy, were they hating me for that long trek from the road to the new apt.!) this past Sunday, I am all moved into my new home with David.

We are currently living in a land of brown boxes, but hope to have that remedied in the next month or so. Why so long you might ask? We'll for one, trying to unpack when you work 9-5, M-F, is a bit of a drag. Usually when I get home in the evening it's already 7:30 or so, and all I want to do is have dinner, relax with my man, and go to bed.

Things are much smaller in the apt. now that all the stuff is in there. It's going to be cozy living for while I think!

Ugh, moving!

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God, I hate moving! All the logistical stuff is the worst, but the packing is almost just a bad. And since I actually went through all my belongings just a couple of years ago and did a purge, I don't really even get the benefit of that with this move.

But I do get the benefit of living with my man! Through all the hassle that has been going on the past few weeks, the only thing that has held me steady is the knowledge that David and I will soon be sharing a home.

The big move day for me is this Sunday, February 13 at 8am (double ugh!).

Here's to everything going smoothly!

New Home!

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Oh my God! We've done it! David and I have signed the lease on a new apartment together and are about to start our new life!! The apartment is very sweet and adorable and it's all about location, location, location! Where is it located, you ask? At 4114A 17th Street @ Diamond, in the Castro area of town. The unit is one of four in a building, and it is a top unit with a wonderful view of the Castro and Twin Peaks.

We by no means got the "perfect" place we were looking for, but this will definitely do for our first home. We were hoping for a fireplace, but this place doesn't have it, but it does allow pets, which to me is more important than a fireplace. The second bedroom is smaller than we would have liked, but it is workable. But it does have a whole attic to use for storage. So it all seems to balance with the good and the bad.

We take position on February 5th, and I will post pictures as soon as I can get them taken.

I am so excited to have the part of my new life with David FINALLY starting!!! Whoo Hoo!!!

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Celebration of Life & Love - Table view

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Celebration of Life & Love - Crowd shot

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Celebration of Life & Love - John B. & Marti

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Celebration of Life & Love - Marti hugging John Barrentine

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Celebration of Life & Love - David & Marti

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Celebration of Life & Love - Margie (Marti's Mom), Marti, Aunt Pat

Marti's engaged!

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Recently, I was asked by the most marvelous, hot, sexy, studly, handsome, dreamy man to spend the rest of my life with him...and I DEFINITELY said yes!!!!